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Sex and Relationship Therapy

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I'm Victoria Kearns (she/her), a COSRT and MBACP registered Integrative Psychotherapist with specialist training in working with couples and with people with relationship and psychosexual problems. I offer a safe, compassionate and non-judgemental space in which you can explore and reflect on your relationship or sexual challenges, the way in which these affect you and your hopes for change. I support you in discovering more about yourself and about how you would like to grow personally and in your relationships - facilitating change towards greater self-love, acceptance and greater satisfaction in your connection with others.

I welcome you as an individual or as a couple in-person at my
Watford and Shoreditch, London therapy rooms, or online. I work with people of all ages (from 18+) and sexual orientations, from different cultural and heritage backgrounds, as well as 
neurodivergent and disabled clients.


I commonly support clients with...
Relationship conflict
Communication difficulties
Emotional or physical intimacy issues
Repeated relationship patterns
 (ADHD & ASD) in relationships
Cheating/affairs and their aftermath
consensual non-monogamy 
Finding greater joy in sex
Recovery from sexual trauma


Low desire and desire discrepancy
Challenges initiating sex

Painful intercourse
Vaginismus, vulvodynia, anodyspareunia

Erectile dysfunction and rapid ejaculation
Difficulties with arousal and orgasm

Fertility issues
Life transitions

What to expect from working with me

Talking therapy can help when you are feeling stuck, unhappy or in crisis, or looking to resolve an issue, either in a relationship with another person or within yourself. Through support, empathy, analysis and interpretation I will help you explore your situation, your feelings and resistances and help bring about change, if necessarySometimes we will look backwards, reflecting on your childhood, past relationships or the dynamic between yourself and your partner, and at other times we will look forwards, and I may invite you to try different ways of connecting with yourself or others to facilitate change, if required. 

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About me

In supporting you I see myself as a fellow traveller who wants the very best for you. Through reflection, exploration and sometimes challenge my aim is to support you in knowing and understanding yourself better, opening the way for new ways of connecting with yourself and with those you love.

My background is in the creative arts, working for flagship London theatres and in health care, specialising in conditions affecting the pelvic organs. My experience in these fields, working with compassion and creativity with people from diverse backgrounds, is fundamental to my approach.

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Relevant employment and training

Relationship & Psychosexual Therapist - CLCH NHS Trust

Bereavement Counsellor - Brent Bereavement Service

Diploma (PgDip) in Couples Therapy - NAOS
London Diploma (PgDip) in Psychosexual & Relationship Therapy
London Foundation in Counselling and Psychotherapy
BSc (Hons) Degree in Psychology & Philosophy - Cardiff University 

Thank you so much for all your help. Working with you has been life changing and our understanding of each other and how we communicate has been transformed.

Therapy room

My therapy rooms

Watford, Herts
Mildred Avenue
Watford WD18

Shoreditch, London
Thames-Side Studios
122-150 Hackney Road
London E2 7QS

And online

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My fees 

Shoreditch, London & Online - 50 minute session
Individuals: £90
Couples: £130
Watford - 50 minute session
Individuals: £75 
Couples: £100 

I have a number of reduced rate appointments available each week. Should you feel this would make therapy more possible for you, please get in touch.  

Get in touch


Please get in touch by email or by completing the form below. I look forward to hearing from you.

Where would you prefer to see me?

Thank you for contacting me. I will be in touch soon.

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Thank you so much for your help. Talking to you has opened up doors for me that I would never have got to on my own. I have learnt so much from our sessions and I am ready to continue my journey on my own.

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